Daniel Rose used to be a dork. Now he’s a sex machine. With his book, The Sex God Method, and a series of seminars he calls “Sexual Confidence Boot Camps” (there’s one in Boston on Saturday, June 2), the 21-year-old BU senior is now out to transform erstwhile Y-chromosome virgins into lubricious Lotharios.
“I was an absolute nerd,” says Rose, a Rehoboth native. “It was really hard for me to even talk to a girl.” And after he’d curbed his video gaming, hit the gym, and finally managed to get a female into the sack, the whole sex thing still proved difficult. (He admits in his book that his first sexual encounter lasted “only a few seconds.”) “I thought that sex was like a favor [women] were doing for me, rather than something I was doing for them.”
You can see the problem. But after “logically convincing” himself that “these beliefs were wrong,” he accrued experience and things started pumping (ahem) on all cylinders. “It’s kind of hard to think your penis is too small when you’re giving girls screaming orgasms.”
Rose teaches four words: Dominance. Emotion. Variety. Immersion. Women want a guy “who can slap her ass and talk dirty to her,” he says, but also someone “who can make her feel strong emotions.” Moreover, they want a guy whose repertoire is varied, and who can showcase it while staying “completely in the moment.”
Fine advice. But isn’t it the kind of stuff that most people figure out on their own? Not everyone, apparently. Men are willing to shell out big bucks — the Boston boot camp is $300, a similar event in New York costs $1000 — for Rose’s seminars. Twenty people are signed up for the Boston event so far, and Rose expects about 25 participants when all is said and done. The average age of boot camp attendees is 25 to 35. Another aspect of the demographic? “There’s a significant amount of guys who are involved in computers and engineering.” (Read: nerds.)
If you believe his book, Rose’s methodology has paid off — at least for himself. His, truly, is some next-level shit. “With three girlfriends, I really didn’t have enough free time to do anything with them other than have sex,” he writes. “Soon, I was having sex more than anyone I knew. Instead of spending eight hours a day playing StarCraft, I now spent eight hours a day having sex, recovering, and going at it again.”
Others could have as much fun, he promises. He says his seminar — which combines lectures and “intense interactive exercises” (practicing dirty talk, say) with female assistants, including one of his girlfriends — has saved relationships.
“I was bad. I was really bad. If I can become someone who’s really great in bed, I think anyone can.”
The Sexual Confidence Boot Camp is Saturday, June 2, from noon to 8 pm, at the Elephant and Castle, 161 Devonshire Street in Boston. Sign up at sexgodmethod.com.